07 August, 2012
Conflict over Last Wishes LRD pg 2
Too often, we do not realise how much we love someone until they are gone. Have you told your parents and your loved ones how much you love them? Blog your message here today.
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I think it is true that we do not love our love ones before they die.
When i thoght that what if my parents were dead...
The next thing i know i was very depressed and very sad.So i think we should love them before it is too late.
I should also tell my family today how much i love them!
I have not told my parents or relatives how much i love them.Whenever my mum says that i am driving her into her graveyard,i feel very sad and regretful.At the moment i thought that anyone in my family is going to pass away i would sob uncontrobally.i hope that i will have enough time to tell all my loved ones that i love them.i hope everyone in the world would pass this message by telling their friends to tell to their parents how much they loved them.Bye bye,got to tell my mum how much i love her!
i do not really tell my parents or my sister directly as i will make me feel quite awkward. instead, i do meaningful stuff to help them like , helping my mother do housework and helping my sister clean up her room. sometimes, when i get back some nice stuff to eat or things from school, i would share with my sister and parents. as my motto is sharing the joy amongst others and when it is within my means.
--Lim Guan Heng
i have not personaly told them of my love for my parents but my actions can tell.i actually love my sis as she is a family member.i don't like to to talk personaly with my family members.my cousins are all grown up.but i will soon tell them.even if i feel embarrased.
I do not really tell my parents and siblings how much i love them as it will make me feel awkward.Instead,i help my parents by being a good child and try to get good results and i help my siblings by playing with them teach them how to do their homework and scold them if they did the wrong thing.I would also sometimes buy for them the things they want to cheer them up if they are sad. By,Lim Jin Long,6Resilince
Yes i have done so,i always do.When i go home or when i am about to sleep or probably any time that seems appropriate.Somethimes when i sleep,i have nightmares about losing my parents and i always treasure them.
I am not really sure whether I have told my loved ones and my parents how much I love them.And I agree that too often we do not realise how much someone means to us until they are gone.We should tell our parents or loved ones before they are gone, when they pass away it will be a very painful moment so we should tell them how much we love and appreciate them.And sometimes I get angry at someone and then I regret every bad thing I say.Now I always try to watch my words when I am angry because I am afraid that I hurt them emotionally and physically. 6Resilience
Yes,i told my parents that i love them. Sometimes, i wrote on a birthday card or mother's/father's day card. I will write on the card the things i wanna say and wish them. And i will also include in that i love them by writing"I love you".Usually, i will write more than once. I will write in the middle of the letter and at the end.The reason i wrote more than once is because that i want them to know.
Lai Sze 6Resilience
My message will be..
" Dear mom and dad,
I would like to thank you for everything you have done for me. I will try my best to please you and I will study hard for my upcomming exams. Sometimes I know that you nag me because you care for me, however , sometimes the nagging can cause' me alot of stress. I know I have not shown it, but I would like to thank you for everything you have done for me. I love you mom and dad:) "
Melissa 6 Resilience
Yes, I told my parents I love them whenever they asked me if I love them.But sometimes we go into a heated argument and the words just kind of vanish into thin air.
Whenever I say I that love them,it comes with a "complementry" hug.My parents in return will also hug me too.and they always say that they love me the most.But sometimes they"love me too much" and I find it kind of unfair for my sisters and brother.They do not get as much love and attention from my parents than me.Mummy and Daddy,"Don't love me too much!"
Not realy,during my parent's birthdays I will write them a card and tell them the things i want to say or any event that involves them. But if there is no reason to say then most probraly i would not say as i will get a little embarass. But if they ask me I would answer them fully. During mother's day me and my sister baked a cake for my mum and we wrote a ' I love you' message inside this is one of the events that i convey my message to them.
Yes,i did tell my parents and family members how much i love them. Actually i love them alot. Because of the coming PSLE, i have been very stressful and thus, angered my parents. But they did not blame as they know that PSLE is very stressful and they had not be controlling their anger. I love my whole family but sometimes they take it as a joke and my heart words jz vanish into thin air. If i was with my parents, they would also give me a hug or kiss. But there is one thing i would love them to do, to come home earlier and play with us or cancle some of my tution to go do swimmimg or playing badminton. Becz of PSLE my parents has been tkaing away my "loved" things e.g my computer, my weekend activities. Rite after PSLE i hope have my "loved" things back and even go out shopping with friends or family.
yes,I have told my parents that I love them and I know that I must express my love to them before it is too late.I remember that before my grandfather pass away,I have remembered to spend lots of times with him to create lots of memory with him,but I have forgotten to tell him how much I miss him and to ask for his forgiveness when I did something wrong.I really regretted it and I wish to spend more time with him.I actually nearly forgotten the time when he watch me and my grandma played batminton and how much fun we had together.After that moment, I will always remember to tell my parents and siblings how much I love them.I hope that I will not repeat the same mistake again. lim yong kap 6 resilience
well, i do to my family member not my cousin as we dont usually meet together . Mostly say to my grandma or grandpa as i love them very much . There was a time where that an uncle from my mum side died and i didnt even know him but i feel sad as even though i dont know him i still care for him
Yes,i have by telling them that nobody can replace them in the world.Everybody should do that before it is to late to do so.I remembered before my uncle died,My family and cousins would all give him our last wishes.It is also important to do so to show our love for them.We would also have some silent time to remember the fun times we had together.We would also say that we love him.
Thank you
joshua lim 6 resilience
Yes i do,I told them they are kind,they care alot about me like complaining to the school when i got bullied when i was primary 3.They cook me home-cooked food even though they are tired from work.They used to buy me stuff that i want like a PSP,a Ds and a Wii.Go through my brother and I's homework even they have work to do from work.Those things they did is the reason why i love them.
I will hug them and tell them i love them.but i only do it in the night.i dont really tell them how much i love them except by telling them "i love you!" at night.its kind of wierd but it shows how much you love them and how much they love us.it shares a bond between our parents and ourselves.i will make them a birthday card whenever their birthday comes,or on any special occasions.they never fail to take care of us and do you have any idea how much sacrifices they made for us?we can show our love in return by saying i love you and it will melt their tiredness away.when they grow older,we can take care of them and doing housework for them.when we are still babies,our parents even have to work till midnight just to provide for us.we must study hard,and do our best in everything we do.showing them love does not mean giving them lots of money.we should obey them and not think that we are always right.
yes i told.my parents buy me a lot of items .when my dad went to europe and us ,he usually buy me souveniers .when i am depressed my parents would console me and ask me for the reason i am upset .they always stand up for me.i love them so much.in return during their birthdaym i will make cakes and cupcakes with the help of my sister and make cards for them .they would alwaysbn buy me gold ,diamond ,platinum jewelleries .they motivate me to do well in my studies.if i go this far in life ,it is always because of my parents.they are the best parents i ever had.
I do not really tell a person that I love them but every night before I sleep, When my mum tuck me in to bed I will always say "I love you" to my mum and then I will hug her.Even if I don't say that I love them I will do stuff to expess my love to them. For example I will make cards and presents for them on ther birthdays or even on Mother's day or Father's day and sometimes on Christmas. Our parents sacrifice alot for us and they spend alot of money on buying us stuff like textbooks, clothes, story books and toys. As children we should express our love for them. We don't necessarily have to say "I love you" to them we can do other stuff like helping our parents to do housework and other stuff.
Michelle Goh
6Resilience
unfortunately,for me,i have often not told my parents or grandparents how i feel about them.Based on the question,i think the idea or thought of telling your parents or loved ones is very good,or shall i say great.i feel that this idea would work out great for those who are on the brink of death.perhaps,this thought would be realistic someday,maybe today,maybe tomorrow who knows?only we can create the scene in which the people who are going to die re greatly comforted by the thought that even if they die,there would still be people who would remember them.since the person is already dying,why not just let him die in peace?rather than letting him die with a heavy heart.in that sense,i would never let a person die with a heavy heart as everyone has the right to be happy.by doing so,i can at least let them die after a laugh on the classic question,"Why did the chicken cross the road?"that way, the person would continue laughing even when he is died.now,i have to bid you farewell as i have to go think of a joke for the next person who is going to die!
I do realise but it seems that my parents are only concerned in my studies but somehow come to think of it they tried so hard to get us to life and it means we must be their only treasure if we lose them or they lose us it would be saddening some of them would cry but some even worse they don't eat and drink.I love my family alot especially my sister she has done almost everything for me.If only I can say it to them
Yes I told them how much I love them. I love my family members the most(especially my mother)because she give birth to me.I also love my cousins,aunty,uncle and so on.I will always play with my cousins siblings and my parents too.(mostly is my cousins and siblings)I really love everybody that is around me.As, my mother is always busy I will ask my father if my siblings and I could play the playground. If both of them is busy I would play together with my siblings.
Telling your family, friends and people close to you that you love them is very important. You cannot predict what is going to happen, and things that you have never imagined could happen to them. If you love them, don't be embarrassed or afraid to tell them so. Treasure the time you have with them, appreciate the things they do for you, and remember that you can never have too much love!
Yes I tell my loved ones that I love them everyday, maybe even a few times a day. Even if I do not tell them I show them that I love them by giving them hugs and kisses.
I tell my loved ones I love them every day and night especially before I go to bed so I can sleep happily. I also show my love by doing things that make them happy.
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